ChapsWife Podcast
Welcome to ChapsWife, a podcast for Christian women who desire to walk faithfully with God in everyday life. Hosted by Sabrina Gilliam—a biblical counselor, Christian educator, and military chaplain’s wife—this podcast offers biblical encouragement, practical wisdom, and real conversations to help you grow in your faith. Whether you're navigating military life, marriage, motherhood, or the daily challenges of following Christ, Sabrina is here to remind you that you're not alone. Join us as we seek to trust God, stay rooted in His Word, and live out our faith with inner peace and joy.
Episode 8: The Military Wife Pivot: Trusting God when Plans Change
Trusting God in the Pivot: Navigating Change After a PCS
Have you ever made the best decision you could, only to realize you needed to change course? In this episode, we talk about the military wife pivot—when plans shift after a PCS. We’ll discuss why change is normal in military life, how to navigate transitions with faith and wisdom, and how to trust that God is working behind the scenes.
You’re not alone in the uncertainty—God is establishing your steps. If this episode encouraged you, share it with a friend and leave a review!
Episode 7: Suffering and Trials
Suffering is an unavoidable part of life, but how do we trust God when the pain feels overwhelming? In this episode of ChapsWife, I share my personal journey through deep loss, including the heartbreaking experience of losing a baby, facing cancer, and enduring other trials that tested my faith. Through it all, I’ve seen God’s faithfulness in ways I never expected.
If you’re walking through grief, illness, or any hardship, this episode will encourage you to cling to Christ, find purpose in pain, and trust that God is working—even when life doesn’t make sense. Join me as we explore how suffering can deepen our faith, shape our testimony, and draw us closer to the One who never fails.
Episode 6: Creating Healthy Daily Routines
Struggling to find balance in your daily life? In this episode, we’ll explore how a Christ-centered routine can bring peace and purpose. Learn how to prioritize spiritual growth, family, health, and relationships while staying intentional with your time. We’ll also discuss how to find joy in the mundane and trust God with your daily tasks. When we commit our routines to Him, He brings order and purpose to every season. Plus, grab your free Balanced Living and Daily Routines Chart at selahbiblicounseling.com/resources!
Episode 5: Overcoming Scrupulosity: Finding Freedom from Excessive Guilt and Fear
Do you constantly feel like you're falling short, second-guessing your every decision, or burdened by guilt—even when you haven’t done anything wrong? In this episode of ChapsWife: Helping Military Wives Grow in Christ Through Military Life, we dive into the topic of scrupulosity—a struggle many Christian military wives face when their conscience becomes overly sensitive, leading to fear and self-condemnation. This can be especially difficult in the midst of the ever-changing and often unpredictable military lifestyle.
Together, we’ll explore what scrupulosity looks like from a biblical perspective, how it distorts our view of God’s grace, and practical steps to find freedom and peace in Christ. Whether you’re grappling with perfectionism, fear of sinning, or an overwhelming need to “get it right” in your role as a wife, mother, or military spouse, this episode is for you. Learn how to rest in God’s love, embrace His grace, and stop striving for impossible standards in a season where so much feels out of your control.
Episode 4: Waiting on God
In the waiting seasons of military life, how do we trust God’s timing and stay grounded in our faith?In this episode of ChapsWife: Helping Military Wives Grow in Christ Through Military Life, Sabrina Gilliam explores the essential Christian practice of waiting on the Lord—whether you're waiting for new orders, a deployment to end, or God's direction in your family life. As military wives, the waiting seasons can feel long and uncertain, but God is present and faithful in every moment. Sabrina shares biblical wisdom and practical advice on how to trust God’s perfect timing, embrace patience, and rely on His plan during seasons of transition. Learn how to strengthen your faith while waiting, apply Scripture to your personal journey, and grow closer to God in the process.
If you’re navigating a waiting season—whether it’s a deployment, a move, or just a time of uncertainty—tune in for encouragement and hope. This episode will help you find peace in trusting God’s sovereignty, even when the answers aren’t immediate
Episode 3: Feeling Swamped: How to Manage Life and Stay Close to God
Feeling overwhelmed by the busyness of military life and family responsibilities? In this episode of ChapsWife: Helping Military Wives Grow in Christ Through Military Life, we explore how to stay faithful to God when your hands (and your schedule) are completely full. Inspired by Chapter 3 of Everyday Faithfulness by Glenna Marshall, we’ll dive into practical strategies for trusting God during your busiest seasons—whether you’re balancing deployments, relocations, work, family life, or all of the above.
You’ll learn how to nurture your relationship with Christ, embrace His grace in the midst of the chaos, and persevere in faithfulness, even when life feels like it’s spinning out of control. If you’re a military wife who’s feeling overwhelmed or stretched thin, this episode is for you. Tune in for encouragement, biblical wisdom, and practical tools to help your faith thrive, even in the busiest moments of military life.
Episode 1: Walking with God in the ordinary
How do we stay faithful in the everyday moments of military life? In this episode, we dive into Chapter 1 of Everyday Faithfulness by Glenna Marshall, exploring how to trust God through constant transitions, motherhood, and daily routines. Be encouraged—God sees and values your faithfulness, even in the small things.